what does it mean if I have 2 years of my life to my ex and he skips over that and goes back to the bumass bitch before me who only gave him, 4 months and he claimed he never loved her.... I was his first real relationship etc 😪 he told me he still hops he marries me and we have kids but how could this be true when you're moving backward and not forward? I feel like such a useless rebound.. like it was always her and never truly me.
wait is this the same girl i just answered? call a friend, i’m not an advice helpline babe.
don’t fall for his words, fall for his actions. if you felt like it was never truly you, it’s your fault that you’re feeling like this now. if you had known your worth and didn’t settle for nothing less than what you deserved. you would probably be up texting your new man (who’s meeting all your requirements) about dinner later, instead of feeling shitty anon messaging a stranger online.
my ex that recently broke up with me 5 months ago just posted a picture of his ex who only gave him 4 months when I have him 2 years with the caption, "I'm sort of here with flowers at your door instead. like cashmere it is, ask me." I can't even deal right now. I'm breaking now. to think I gave someone geninue love and it was a lie. how do I deal???
his love for you was not a lie. but remember time does not measure the quality of a relationship or how much you love someone. they might make your ex feel a way that you can’t make them feel and you’re gonna have to accept that. you should have seen that and scrolled on, cause evidently he has moved on, getting on with life and you should be doing the same. he posted that for his recent ex to see, not you. you’re all feeling some way and his intentions were probably not for you to see it anyway. so do what makes you happy and don’t make your ex fuck with your aura again, and remember only weak things break with ease.